Some things have stood the test of time; love is one of them – and it actually has 
stood since before time itself began. Zelmyra and Herbert Fisher are a shining 
example of love’s longevity. They made a commitment to spend all of their 
tomorrows together on May 13, 1924. Eighty-four years later, in 2008, they broke 
the Guinness World Record for the being the longest married living couple. After 87 
years of marriage, Herbert passed away in 2011 at 105 years old; his wife was the 
exact same age when she died just two years later in 2013. 
Before they passed the Fisher’s were asked several questions about their long 
lasting love. In their answers you will see you how simple their “secrets” are, but 
number 14 is the best marriage advice ever given. 
1. What made you realize that you could spend the rest of your lives together? 
Were you scared at all?
With each day that passed, our relationship was more solid and secure. Divorce was 
NEVER an option, or even a thought.
2. How did you know your spouse was the right one for you?
We grew up together and were best friends before we married. A friend is for life; 
our marriage has lasted a lifetime
3. Is there anything you would do differently after more than 80 years of 
marriage?
We wouldn’t change a thing. There’s no secret to our marriage, we just did what was 
needed for each other and our family.
4. What is your advice to someone who is trying to keep the faith that Mr. 
Right is really out there?
Zelmyra: Mine was just around the corner! He is never too far away, so keep the 
faith – when you meet him, you’ll know.
5. What was the best piece of marriage advice you ever received?
Respect, support, and communicate with each other. Be faithful, honest, and true. 
Love each other with ALL of your heart.
6. What are the most important attributes of a good spouse?
Zelmyra: A hard worker and a good provider. The 1920s were hard, but Herbert 
wanted and provided the best for us. I married a good man!
7. What is your best Valentine’s Day memory?
Zelmyra: I cook dinner every day. Herbert left work early and surprised me; he 
cooked dinner for me! He is a VERY good cook!
Herbert: I said that I was going to cook dinner for her and [that] she could relax. The 
look on her face and clean plate made my day!
8. You got married very young – how did you both manage to grow as 
individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?
Everyone who plants a seed and harvests the crop celebrates together. We are 
individuals, but accomplish more together.
9. What is your fondest memory of your 85-year marriage?
Our legacy: 5 children, 10 grandchildren, 9 great-grandchildren, and 1 great-great 
grandchild.
10. Does communicating get easier with time? How do you keep your 
patience?
The children are grown, so we talk more now. We can enjoy our time on the porch 
or our rocking chairs – together.
11. How did you cope when you had to be physically separated for long 
periods of time?
Herbert: We were apart for 2 months when Z was hospitalized with our 5th child. It 
was the most difficult time of my life. Zelmyra’s mother helped me with the house 
and the other children; otherwise I would have lost my mind.
12. At the end of bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to 
remind yourselves?
Remember marriage is not a contest, never keep a score. God has put the two of you 
together on the same team to win.
13. Is fighting important?
Never physically! Agree that it’s okay to disagree, and fight for what really matters. 
Learn to bend – not break!
14. What’s the one thing you have in common that transcends everything else?
We are both Christians and believe in God. Marriage is a commitment to the Lord. 
We pray with and for each other every day.
Proverbs 18:22
1 Corinthians 13:13

Some things have stood the test of time; love is one of them – and it actually has stood since before time itself began. Zelmyra and Herbert Fisher are a shining example of love’s longevity. They made a commitment to spend all of their tomorrows together on May 13, 1924. Eighty-four years later, in 2008, they broke the Guinness World Record for the being the longest married living couple. After 87 years of marriage, Herbert passed away in 2011 at 105 years old; his wife was the exact same age when she died just two years later in 2013. 

 

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Before they passed the Fisher’s were asked several questions about their long lasting love. In their answers you will see how simple their “secrets” are. But number 14 is the best marriage advice ever given! 

 

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1. What made you realize that you could spend the rest of your lives together? Were you scared at all?

 

With each day that passed, our relationship was more solid and secure. Divorce was NEVER an option, or even a thought.

 

2. How did you know your spouse was the right one for you?

 

We grew up together and were best friends before we married. A friend is for life; our marriage has lasted a lifetime.

 

3. Is there anything you would do differently after more than 80 years of marriage?

 

We wouldn’t change a thing. There’s no secret to our marriage, we just did what was needed for each other and our family.

 

4. What is your advice to someone who is trying to keep the faith that Mr. Right is really out there?

 

Zelmyra: Mine was just around the corner! He is never too far away, so keep the faith – when you meet him, you’ll know.

 

5. What was the best piece of marriage advice you ever received?

 

Respect, support, and communicate with each other. Be faithful, honest, and true. Love each other with ALL of your heart.

 

6. What are the most important attributes of a good spouse?

 

Zelmyra: A hard worker and a good provider. The 1920s were hard, but Herbert wanted to and provided the best for us. I married a good man!

 

7. What is your best Valentine’s Day memory?

 

Zelmyra: I cook dinner every day. Herbert left work early and surprised me; he cooked dinner for me! He is a VERY good cook!

 

Herbert: I said that I was going to cook dinner for her and [that] she could relax. The look on her face and clean plate made my day!

 

8. You got married very young – how did you both manage to grow as individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?

 

Everyone who plants a seed and harvests the crop celebrates together. We are individuals, but accomplish more together.

 

9. What is your fondest memory of your 85-year marriage?

 

Our legacy: 5 children, 10 grandchildren, 9 great-grandchildren, and 1 great-great grandchild.

 

10. Does communicating get easier with time? How do you keep your patience?

 

The children are grown, so we talk more now. We can enjoy our time on the porch or our rocking chairs – together.

 

11. How did you cope when you had to be physically separated for long periods of time?

 

Herbert: We were apart for 2 months when Z was hospitalized with our 5th child. It 

was the most difficult time of my life. Zelmyra’s mother helped me with the house and the other children; otherwise I would have lost my mind.

 

12. At the end of bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to remind yourselves?

 

Remember marriage is not a contest, never keep a score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win.

 

13. Is fighting important?

 

Never physically! Agree that it’s okay to disagree, and fight for what really matters. 

Learn to bend – not break!

 

14. What’s the one thing you have in common that transcends everything else?

 

We are both Christians and believe in God. Marriage is a commitment to the Lord. We pray with and for each other every day.

 

Proverbs 18:22

 

1 Corinthians 13:13

 

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